Monday, September 12, 2011

Caring People..

They say :”people may forget what u say or what u do to them But they will never forget how u make them feel “I believe it for some people, but it seems that there are some people that don’t care also for how people make them feel, they just don’t care for anything!!!

What is strange here ,is that SOME people tend to CARE for the ones who DON’T care for them (or in other words who don’t care much for them)and the Ones who care for them the most ,they just deal with them like any other people they know or may be even less !!!!

What is also more strange, is that when someone cares too much (or not too much but at least with a great extent) at First, when u r just beginning to be friends, or just beginning to know each other and after a while ,After one year or something of knowing each other, many things simply changes and the caring also changes and the talking too. Although,I think that the OPPOSITE totally was supposed to Happen. At Least that is Logical huh?!!!

They Question is WHY?!!!! Why people start to care less after sometime?? (Let’s make it smaller and say why Friends start to care less after sometime?!!) Do they become afraid of being comitted??

For example, if a friendship is between a boy and a girl, and they were good friends at first then after some time, it’s all changed. One of them starts to care less and talk less and don’t find words to say when they are together. Why is that??? IS somebody afraid here that this caring will convert into love or something or that person is not ready to be comitted to someone?!! May be!!Or May be someone gets bored from the other?!! U never know!!

SO, what will u do if u were in that girl’s or that boy’s shoes?!! The one who her/his friend get bored of her and care less and talk less. Do u just accept that fact and start to care less as well?!! Or u continue Caring as u used to? May be he shall recognize that and recognize the difference between your caring and other peoples caring. People are really strange to understand. I think even if u r 100 years old, U will not be able to understand how or why people act like that?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Saturday, November 27, 2010

加油加油加油~~



都已经毕业差不多三个月多了,我还没工作,真的觉得没用。我都已经二十二岁人了,还要跟我父亲掏零用钱,自己都觉得过意不去。在这几个月里,长时间内我都在吉隆坡。在我没有工作经验情况下,我应征了关于Banking/Financial, Human Resources, Purchasing/Material Mgmt,以及 Marketing/Business Dev 的部门。我应征了超过四十间公司了。在这四十间公司里,我面试了五到六间公司,可是就没有一间接受我。

昨天,我去了 AIA Shared Services Sdn Bhd 面试了,结果还是一样失败了。我面试了差不多六间公司了,没有一间公司讲出我为什么不合格,只有 AIA Shared Services Sdn Bhd 讲出对我的看法,他们觉得我没有信心。他们问了我一句,你知道你对那一行有兴趣吗?我却答了:“玩音乐”。因为在我没工作经验下,我只想到音乐。可是我对他们说我没想过要走做音乐这一行,因为玩音乐正的很难生存。他们也告诉了我没试怎么知道。在他们拒绝我的当儿,他们介绍我别个部门,讲了很多这份工的资料,也教了我一些在我还没找到工作之前可以做的一些事。我少少被他们的好意感动了,真的跟我之前所面试的公司不同。我会好好想一想的~^^

P/S: 没信心的来源是来自缺乏资讯。在不够准备的情况下去面试,成功的百分率也会减少。就因为失败的百分率高了,我们自己也会多多少少的失去些信心。不过,在你觉得没信心的当儿,为什么不去给自己进步的空间呢?因为机会只垂青有准备的人。)

世界上最可悲的一句话就是:“曾经有一个非常好的机会,可惜我没有把握住。”遗憾的是,这种事情在很多人身上都发生过。其实,机会对我们所有人都是平等的,它有可能降临在我们每一个的身上,但前提是:在它到来之前,你一定要做好准备。

Sunday, August 15, 2010

Choices..

There is always a better choice..
It is the matter of will u willing to let go the old one
and accept the new one..
Come on~ there is still a lot of choices..
Don because of a tree, let go the whole forest.
:)..
right?? hehe~~

Thursday, August 12, 2010

From Her

She had gave me a sentences.
I choose to believe.
I will always keep in mind.

Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Blog of my love path~

http://www.wretch.cc/blog/tianolee

Sunday, June 7, 2009

如果你喜欢的人骗了你 你还会继续喜欢他吗?



你爱的有多深
如果很深,再怎么骗,你虽然生气,但是不会怎么样。
但是如果你是很记仇的人,那比较麻烦,要调节你自己的心态。

爱得不深
到分的时候自然而然你也会想分的

都说爱情是盲目的 就算被爱的人骗过一次又一次 还是会忍不住要去相信他
虽然 自己知道 这个人不可信了
孰能无过呢?如果只有一次 那就给他一次机会
也等于给自己一次机会吧

谎言也又区分的,如果是善意的,他一定是为了维护你们的爱,顾及到你的感受,害怕伤害到你,那么完全可以原谅他,如果是恶意的,那么就看你爱他的程度了,如如真心爱他,那么你为什么不用你的真爱去感化他呢?

骗,也许是善意的谎言,那么你先可以努力,努力过后还是这样,那么请你放弃,因为你为你的幸福真正的努力过了,不需要后悔了,再不珍惜你,那就是他的损失!所以到那个时候那么就请你放手吧,

你们所说的谎言是善意还是恶意的呢??

Sunday, April 26, 2009

微晶华语词曲创作发表会的那一天~ (2009年4月5日)

这是我第一次参加华语词曲创作发表会,
当晚的心情一点也不紧张,反而兴奋得很。。
我有机会在这个舞台上表演,最大的原因是认识了啊sam以及他的家庭及朋友。
我唱的这首歌“坚持相信”, 在舞台帮我伴凑的就有包括了>>
>Sam(和声), Moses(bass), Joanne(keyboard), Edmund(guitar), 以及 Benedict(Drum)
他们全部都很热爱音乐的~
我很羡慕他们可以玩乐器玩到这么厉害le~ @.@

中午,在 main hall 等待彩排的开始。。

啊sam在彩排的时候玩high了。。哈哈

当晚唱“蜡笔小新”的主唱。
他有像蜡笔小新吧~ 哈哈

等着发表会的开始哦,
闷了又再玩起来了。。
全部要变超人了。。 :P

这些朋友都是在那天帮我和“蜡笔小新”伴凑的乐器高手。。
很棒啊!!

我们来个大合照吧~ cheese~

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